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Abuse and neglect of elderly and dependent adults is a
growing concern nationally and in our local communities. Elderly
abuse may take many forms including physical violence, neglect,
emotional abuse, financial exploitation, sexual abuse or
harassment.
Typically, the victim of abuse is over the age of 75 and
requires special assistance to remain in the home. The abuser
generally lives with the victim and is a loved care giver or
relative.
Abusers are often experiencing overwhelming stress such as
financial problems, drug abuse, alcoholism, or chronic mental and
medical problems. Many times, abusers are dependent on the
victims for financial support.
Probability of becoming a victim of adult abuse can be
reduced by planning ahead. Preventative steps include:
- Maintain social contacts outside your home. Continually
cultivate friends of all ages so there are always people around
you who are concerned about your well-being.
- Maintain regular medical and dental appointments and
take care of your personal needs.
- Keep valuables in a safe place.
- If living with another, have your own phone. Send and
open your own mail.
- Consider direct deposit for any regular monthly income.
- Be thoroughly familiar with your financial status and
know how to handle your assets.
- Do not give your credit card, social security or bank
account numbers over the phone. Do not add another person's name
to bank or insurance documents without legal advise.
- Be a smart Consumer. Be wary of advertisers soliciting
funds for one-of-a-kind deals or deals which provide unrealistic
returns for your investments. Remember, if it sounds too good to
be true, it usually is.
- Find an attorney who can advise you of legal options in
the event of a disability.
- Make a will and carefully consider all revisions before
finalizing them.
- If an adult relative, particularly one who leads a
troubled life, wants to live with you, think
it over carefully. Be especially careful if the individual has a
history of violent behavior or drug or alcohol abuse.
- Be careful when asked to sign anything. Have someone
you trust review the document if you are unsure of the contents.
- Be wary about deeding or willing your house or other
assets to anyone who promises to keep you out of a nursing home
or take care of you at home if you become disabled.
- When you need help, ask a trusted friend, attorney,
family member, or physician for assistance.
If you are a victim of elder abuse or suspect abuse of a
friend, contact the proper authorities--usually Adult Protective
Services (a joint federal and state social service agency), the
state Department of Aging or, in the case of nursing-home
patients, the state or local ombudsman's office.
For more information, contact your local
Colorado State University Extension office.
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